From Battambang, we moved onto Phnom Penh, the bustling capital of Cambodia. For a city that was completely abandoned only 30 years ago, there is definitely plenty of life there today – lots of traffic, a lively and trendy riverfront, and restaurants with red Angkor Beer signs lit up everywhere. We had a lot of fun here – happy hour on the river (where we met an actual Australian crocodile hunter), a day at a fancy hotel pool, and dinner with a high school friend of mine, Rebecca Van Elk, who is on her own tour of the world. Go figure – the first time we see each other in 12 years is in Phnom Penh, Cambodia!
Two of the main tourist sites in Phnom Penh are very sobering, however. In the late 70’s, the Khmer Rouge took control of the Cambodian government and evacuated the population from all the major cities into the countryside. They had a vision of a completely agrarian society, and turned the population of Cambodia into slave labor in the fields. Over the 4 years of their rule, around 2 million people were killed - either murdered by the Khmer Rouge cadres, or having died of starvation and disease. In Phnom Penh, the Khmer Rouge turned Tuol Sleng school into a prison, and around 17,000 people went through this prison over the 4 years the Khmer Rouge was in power. Only 7 people survived. People were tortured repeatedly for their ‘confession’ (usually having to do with conspiring against the Khmer Rouge or with the CIA), then once they confessed they were executed. The people slated for execution were taken to Cheong Ek, a farm area about 13 km outside of Phnom Penh, where they were killed and buried (sometimes before they were dead). Today they’ve turned the prison into a museum, and the “killing fields” have been turned into a memorial. At the killing fields there are still exposed human bones that slowly come up from the ground as it rains and there is a tactful monument housing about 8,000 human skulls from those who died there. We went to visit both, and I can say it’s hard to describe the experience – it was haunting, sobering, and incredibly thought provoking. Sadly, I never even knew this part of history, which has had such a huge impact on this country, had happened before we went on this trip.
After Phnom Penh, we went back to Battambang to spend a week as volunteer English teachers with an NGO we came across the first time we were in there. Brian and I attempting to teach English is scary for a couple reasons – 1)we aren’t teachers, and 2) our own English has digressed markedly since we’ve been in Asia. When trying to communicate with locals in English, we’ve started to find they understand us much better when you just get to the point of what you want – all the little ‘filler words’ we use really just get in the way (ie, “Where is toilet?” or more often, “Toilet?”). Unfortunately, it’s become a bad habit…we catch ourselves leaving out the ‘the’s’ and the ‘ands’ when talking to each other every once in awhile, too. However, the NGO, Children’s Action for Development (CAD), was just very excited to have volunteers, even if they weren’t actual teachers, and even if it’s just for short term. We’re actually quite excited we stumbled across this NGO – it’s an organization that’s working to improve the quality of life within the community through education of disadvantaged children, outreach to parents, skills-training, and providing income opportunities. It’s entirely based within the community they’re working in – the director and all the CAD staff are all volunteers from the local villages. These villages are pretty poor, and the kids that they are taking into the program generally come from families where the parents have abandoned them (it seems many go to Thailand to find work and leave the kids with grandparents or neighbors), a parent has died, or the parents have pulled the kids out of school to help earn money. It’s an NGO that is definitely doing good things in the local community, and has the potential to really improve the quality of life within in the community for future generations. Being locally-based, though, they don’t have the advantages the internationally-based large NGO’s have, which is mainly the fundraising capability and attracting volunteers from western countries. While we hope that we made at least a little impact with the children during the week we spent with CAD, we also realized that we can make a much bigger impact for this organization by helping to get them publicity in the US. We figured our blog was a good start…it’s worth a look to check out www.cadcambodia.org.
The week we spent working with CAD was a lot of fun, and completely exhausting. We stayed in Battambang city, and rented bicycles to cycle the 14 km each way to the village every day. We started our day at 8:30 in the “Smiling Child Library”, which is an informal education center to help kids who are behind in school catch up so they can get back into public school full time. They have a reading time in which we made ourselves available to help them with pronouncing English words or just to read to them (there are some scary Cambodian folklore stories out there), and we’d help teach an English class (under the direction of the teachers, who were quite good with the kids), as well. After the Smiling Child Library closed at 4, we’d go watch the CAD football (and by football, I mean soccer) practice from 4-5, then go help teach English till 6 at the after school program they have at the local school. Then we’d ride back to the hotel, get showered, and grab some dinner. We’d go to bed exhausted every night…not only was hanging out in the 90 degree heat and humidity tiring, but the kids seem to have an endless amount of energy, as well. It was even more tiring on the weekend – they have computer skills classes for the older kids, but a lot of the younger kids also come to hang out at the CAD office since it’s open. Our job mainly became to entertain the younger kids so they’d stay out of the way of the older kids actually trying to do some work. I am still questioning how it’s possible to have so much energy for such a sustained period of time….after this week, we have a whole new level of respect for anyone who works with kids all day. Although I complain about how tiring the week was, it was also one of the most fun and educational (for us…hopefully for them, too!) times we’ve had on this trip.
A couple highlights from the week -
· We rode our bikes to and from the library every day, and also made a trip by to the local market for lunch each day. We must have heard “hello” (or more like, “hel-LOOO!!!!”) at least 10 times each trip. The longer we were there, the more kids recognized us, which meant even more “hellos!” It definitely makes the ride go by a little faster when you spend half of it smiling and waving.
· Towards the end of the week, the kids started teaching us Khmer words, as well. There are so many subtle differences between words in their language that they hear very distinctly, but we just cannot. Just as they have a trouble pronouncing certain sounds we make in our words (“Brian” is really hard for them to say), they make sounds for their language that we just cannot imitate. There were more than a few times that we’d be trying to say the words they were trying to teach us, and they’d just burst out laughing. A couple times, I’m pretty sure that in our butchering of their language, we accidentally said some naughty Khmer words. Due to file sizes we are having difficulty, but we hope to post some videos of us failing a Khmer pronunciation lesson given to us by the children. Stay tuned.
· We actually did learn to count pretty well in Khmer…one of the more advanced girls was teaching us “The --- costs 1000 (or whatever price) riel (Cambodian currency). She started using fruit as an example. This information turned out to be enlightening because if her prices were accurate, we found out that we paid about 4 times more than we should have for a half kilo of oranges at the local market.
· We actually did learn to count pretty well in Khmer…one of the more advanced girls was teaching us “The --- costs 1000 (or whatever price) riel (Cambodian currency). She started using fruit as an example. This information turned out to be enlightening because if her prices were accurate, we found out that we paid about 4 times more than we should have for a half kilo of oranges at the local market.
After our week working with CAD in Battambang, we needed some time to unwind…and what better place than back at the beach? We are currently in Sihanoukville, which is on the southern coast of Cambodia on the Gulf of Thailand. We figure this is also the perfect place to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary in a couple days…we got married looking out over the Gulf of Thailand, so it seems appropriate to celebrate our anniversary on the Gulf of Thailand, as well. Although so far, the weather hasn’t really been cooperating for laying on the beach, we’ve been finding alternative ways to relax. The other day we watched a movie (pirated, of course) in our own little private theater (you can rent a private room here complete with a large flat-screen LCD TV and comfortable couches) and enjoyed some tasty BBQ fish on the beach for dinner. We’re looking forward to more of the same the next couple days (maybe with a little sun added in!). After Sihanoukville, we plan to spend a few days checking out a couple more towns near the coast, Kampot and Kep, and then it’s on to Vietnam!